Thursday, June 11, 2026

The Stick We Should Be Afraid To Receive

   بِسْمِ اللّهِ الرَّحْمـَنِ الرَّحِيمِ  

يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ ٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَلْتَنظُرْ نَفْسٌۭ مَّا قَدَّمَتْ لِغَدٍۢ ۖ

 وَٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ خَبِيرٌۢ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ

Yā ayyuhā alladhīna āmanū ittaqū Allāha

waltanẓur nafsun mā qaddamat lighad

wattaqū Allāh

inna Allāha khabīrun bimā taʿmalūn

“O people of īmān, have taqwā of Allah. Let every soul look carefully at what it has sent ahead for tomorrow. Have taqwā of Allah. Allah knows fully what you do.”

Sūrat al-Ḥashr 59:18

There is an old sharp story told about Bahlool Dana and Hārūn al-Rashīd.

It is not a story to build history upon.
It is not a sanad.
It is not a courtroom document.

It is one of those stories that comes with a stick in its hand.

First it makes us smile.
Then it hits us.

The Gift

A delegation once came to the court of the Khalifa.

They had come from far away. Some versions say they were from an African tribe. They brought a gift for Hārūn al-Rashīd.

It was not gold. It was not silk. It was not a sword with jewels on the handle. It was a carved stick.

A simple stick.

Perhaps it had meaning in their land. Perhaps it had taken time to carve. Perhaps it was made from a tree they honoured. Perhaps it was the best thing they had to offer.

This is the thing about gifts.

A gift is not only the object. A gift is the heart that walks with it.

But courts do not always understand hearts. Courts understand weight. Shine. Price. Usefulness. Display. So the courtiers laughed. They looked at the stick and saw wood.

Bahlool looked at the visitors and saw hurt.

This is already the whole story.

The court saw the object. Bahlool saw the people.

Bahlool Asked For It

Bahlool Dana was there.

People called him mad. People called him strange. People laughed at him. He carried the strange freedom of a person who had stopped begging for people’s approval.

That is a dangerous kind of freedom.

A person who needs applause can be controlled. A person who fears mockery can be trained. But a person who can be laughed at and remain clean inside is not easy to own.

Bahlool saw the faces of the visitors.

Perhaps their eyes lowered. Perhaps their shoulders changed. Perhaps they understood enough of the laughter to know they had been insulted.

So Bahlool said, “Give the stick to me.”

There are moments when adab is very simple.

Someone is being humiliated. You stand near them.

Someone’s sincerity is being mocked. You protect it.

Someone’s small gift is being crushed under the shoes of proud people. You pick it up and hold it with honour.

Bahlool took the stick. The courtiers laughed even more. Of course they laughed.

When people are already cruel, kindness looks foolish to them.

The Terrible Joke

Then the court found a new joke. They said the stick should be given to Bahlool because it was fit for the greatest fool in the world. This is how mockery works.

First it hurts the stranger. Then it hurts the one who protects the stranger.

The court could not bear that Bahlool had spoiled their entertainment. So they turned him into the entertainment.

They said, “Let him carry it. It is his award.” The award for foolishness.

And Bahlool carried it.

Not secretly. Not with shame. He carried it openly. People laughed. He carried it. People pointed. He carried it. People made jokes. He carried it.

This is one of the hidden strengths of the people of Allah. They know that being called a fool by foolish people is not always an insult. Sometimes it is a certificate.

Not every laughter is proof that the laughing people are right.

Sometimes a whole room laughs, and the angels are silent.

The Stick Became Heavy

Years passed.

The stick remained with Bahlool.

A strange thing happens when you carry mockery with patience. The mockery changes weight. At first it is meant to humiliate you. Then slowly it becomes a witness against those who gave it.

The stick had been a joke. But time is a stern teacher.

Then Hārūn al-Rashīd fell ill. The palace changed.

The carpets were still there. The guards were still there. The physicians were still there. The titles were still there.

But illness is very rude.

It does not care for titles. It enters the room of the king and the room of the beggar with the same message:

You are not staying.

Hārūn called for Bahlool. Bahlool came.

With the stick.

The Last Journey

Hārūn said something like this:

“Bahlool, I am leaving.”

Bahlool asked, “Where are you going?”

“To the next world.”

“When will you return?”

“I will not return.”

This is the sentence that should make every human being quiet.

Not return.

We return from school. We return from work. We return from journeys. We return from weddings. We return from hospitals. We return from holidays. We return from the market. We return from funerals, until one day others return from ours.

But from that journey, we do not return.

Bahlool asked, “How long will you stay there?”

“Forever.”

Then Bahlool began to ask the questions that only a wise fool is brave enough to ask.

“When you travelled in this world, did you prepare?”

“Yes.”

“When you went from one city to another, did you send people ahead?”

“Yes.”

“When you moved with your court, did you send tents, guards, food, animals, money, servants, letters, and arrangements?”

“Yes.”

“When you went for a short journey, did you plan?”

“Yes.”

Then Bahlool asked the question:

“For this journey, the journey from which you will not return, the journey where you will stay forever, what have you sent ahead?”

The Khalifa was silent.

What could he say?

He had sent armies. He had sent orders. He had sent gifts. He had sent messengers. He had sent punishments. He had sent rewards.

But what had he sent ahead for his own Hereafter?

What had he sent ahead for the standing before Allah?

What had he sent ahead for the day when crowns do not speak, signatures do not speak, seals do not speak, and the human being stands with only what the soul carried?

Bahlool placed the stick near him.

He said, in meaning:

“I have found the one more deserving of this stick.”

Who Is the Fool?

This is the wound of the story.

Who is the fool?

The man who carried a stick because he did not want guests to be hurt? Or the man who ruled lands but did not prepare for the land under the ground?

The man whom people laughed at? Or the man who forgot the only meeting that cannot be cancelled?

The man who looked strange in the court? Or the man who planned every small journey and neglected the final one?

The Qur’an says:

وَلْتَنظُرْ نَفْسٌۭ مَّا قَدَّمَتْ لِغَدٍۢ

Let every soul look at what it has sent ahead for tomorrow.

Not what it saved. Not what it displayed. Not what it announced. Not what people praised.

What it sent ahead.

This is a frightening question because we are very good at sending things ahead in this world.

We send applications. We send messages. We send deposits. We send children to school. We send goods by courier. We send reminders. We send invitations. We send documents. We send money before we travel so the hotel room is ready.

But for the grave?

What have we sent?

A prayer with presence? A secret charity? A right returned? A wound repaired? A tongue disciplined? A child held with gentleness? A parent served without complaint? A worker paid fairly? A neighbour protected? A tear of tawbah? A page of Qur’an read when no one was watching? A pride swallowed? A forgiveness given? A habit broken for Allah?

This is the luggage of the next life.

It does not look impressive in the airport of the dunya.

But it is the only luggage that arrives.

The Court Inside Us

It is easy to blame the courtiers.

They were cruel. They laughed at a sincere gift. They mocked a man of adab. They thought value meant price.

But the court is not only in Baghdad.

There is a court inside us.

It is full of small darbaris.

One says, “What will people think?” One says, “This is not useful.” One says, “This person is beneath us.” One says, “Laugh, everyone is laughing.” One says, “Protect your image.” One says, “Kindness is weakness.” One says, “Dignity is for important people.”

And somewhere inside, Bahlool is also standing.

Quiet. Strange. Unimpressed.

He says, “Do not hurt them.”

The court laughs.

He says, “Give me the stick.”

This is the real struggle.

To let the Bahlool inside us defeat the court inside us.

In a School

This story belongs in a school.

A child brings a drawing. It is not neat. The sun is too large. The tree is floating. The house has no door. The people have six fingers. But the child has brought his heart.

Another child brings a stone from the playground and says, “This is special.” Another brings a flower with half the petals missing. Another brings a story that makes no sense, but the eyes are shining while telling it. An adult can laugh. Or an adult can receive.

This is not a small matter.

A school is not only a place where children learn what is correct. It is a place where they learn whether their sincerity is safe.

When a child offers something from the heart and the adults laugh, something closes. When a child offers something small and an adult receives it with honour, something grows.

The courtiers are everywhere.

They laugh at slow children. They laugh at awkward children. They laugh at children who speak differently. They laugh at children whose clothes are simple. They laugh at children who ask strange questions. They laugh at children who still believe their stick is a treasure.

And then we wonder why the child stops bringing gifts.

A teacher needs a little Bahlool inside.

The courage to protect dignity.

The courage to be thought too soft by people whose hearts have become hard.

The courage to carry the stick.

In a Community

A community also receives gifts.

A simple person comes with sincerity. A poor person gives a small donation. An old woman offers advice. A young person asks a clumsy question. A visitor comes with a different accent. A family brings food that is not fashionable. A worker offers an idea. A child recites with mistakes.

What do we do?

Do we see the heart?

Or do we laugh at the stick?

Many communities do not collapse because they lack programmes. They collapse because they lack adab.

There may be events. There may be posters. There may be speeches. There may be fundraising. There may be slogans.

But if sincere people are humiliated, the barakah begins to leave.

Not loudly.

Quietly.

First the sensitive people leave. Then the truthful people become quiet. Then the young people stop trusting. Then the elders complain that the community is not what it used to be.

But perhaps the problem began much earlier.

Perhaps someone brought a carved stick, and the room laughed.

The Real Preparation

The verse does not say: Let every soul look at what it intends to send.

It says: what it has sent.

This is important.

Good intentions are precious, but they must become deeds.

“I will pray with more attention one day.” “I will apologise later.” “I will spend when I have more.” “I will forgive when I am ready.” “I will study the Qur’an when life becomes calm.” “I will change after this project.” “I will become gentle after people stop irritating me.”

This is how Shayṭān keeps us respectable and empty.

He does not always make us deny the ākhirah.

Sometimes he only makes us postpone it.

Tomorrow. After exams. After the wedding. After the building is complete. After the loan is paid. After the children are older. After retirement. After one more season of being busy.

But Allah says: look at what you have sent ahead for tomorrow.

Not what you plan to send when life becomes convenient.

The grave is not waiting for our calendar to clear.

The Stick in My Hand

The scariest part of the story is that I do not know whose hand the stick belongs in.

It is easy to place it beside Hārūn.

He was a king. He had wealth. He had power. He had a court.

But what about me?

Have I prepared?

Or have I only arranged my dunya with religious language around it?

Have I sent ahead anything that will recognise me in the dark?

A ṣadaqah that says, “I know him.” A sajdah that says, “I saw the mercy.” A kindness that says, “I was there.” A forgiven person who says, “She let me go.” A child who says, “He did not crush me.” A prayer that says, “She stood even when tired.” A hidden tear that says, “Only Allah saw this.”

This is the company we need.

Not the company that claps in the court.

The company that waits in the grave.

The Warning

The stick was not really about foolishness.

It was about forgetfulness.

A fool is not the one who owns little. A fool is the one who is warned and still sleeps. A fool is not the one who looks simple. A fool is the one who makes the temporary heavy and the eternal light. A fool is not the one people mock. A fool is the one who sells his tomorrow for the laughter of a room.

Bahlool carried the stick and remembered. Hārūn carried the empire and forgot.

This is why the story remains. Because we are all capable of being Hārūn. And we are all invited to become a little more like Bahlool.

Not mad.

Free.

Free from the court. Free from mockery. Free from the need to look clever. Free enough to protect the hurt. Free enough to ask the final question.

What have you sent ahead?

Closing Reflection

Perhaps today each of us should look at our own luggage. What has gone ahead?

If death came tonight, what would be waiting?

This question is not meant to make us despair. It is mercy.

Allah allows us to ask while we can still send something.

A prayer can still be prayed. A wrong can still be corrected.
A tongue can still become clean. A debt can still be paid. A parent can still be called. A child can still be held. A poor person can still be fed. A page can still be read. A tear can still fall. A heart can still return.

The stick is frightening. But the door of tawbah is open.

Ya Allah, do not let us become people who prepare carefully for every journey except the journey to You.

Do not let us laugh at sincerity. Do not let us crush the gifts of simple people. Do not let us mistake price for worth. Do not let us call adab foolishness.

Make us people who send ahead what will be pleasing to You. Make our hidden deeds better than our public image. Make our last journey the journey of a servant returning to a Merciful Lord. And when the stick passes through the court of this world, do not let it stop in our hands.

Āmīn.

Source note

The Qur’anic anchor is Sūrat al-Ḥashr 59:18, where Allah commands the people of īmān to look at what they have sent ahead for tomorrow. Quran.com provides the Arabic text and a standard English rendering of this āyah.

The core “walking stick” story is found in modern retellings where Hārūn gives Bahlool a stick for the most foolish person, and Bahlool later returns it when Hārūn admits he has made no preparation for the journey from which no one returns.

The African delegation opening is included here as an oral teaching frame. I would not present it as established history. Encyclopaedia Iranica describes Bohlūl/Bahlool as an archetypal “wise fool” figure linked by popular tradition to Hārūn al-Rashīd, while also cautioning that the later close court relationship should not be assumed as secure history. 

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The Stick We Should Be Afraid To Receive

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